You know i wonder why there are people who are just mean to others. I mean what have they ever done to you? It doesn't make you look cool. You may get a laugh out of it, so what? Is destroying a life really worth a laugh

Well some peopkle are just cold hearted at will. Some have had a horrible life in the first place.

people are most likely mean to each other based on their personal histories and or their own insecurities

Sadly, most of the time, it's just plain bad/lazy parents. They don't care and then they pass that cold, uncaring attitude to their children. I would be sad if my kids grew up to just hate everyone because I didn't bother to be a parent. I'm not saying I'm perfect or that my children are any better than anyone else, but I also am not going to condone a person's behavior just because they don't bother to try.

Well,I haven't experienced that but my friend Mara is a little mean when you talk to her.It's good to find someone like you ! :'D

well, some people are just jerks when u talk to them because they're in a bad mood.

They do it to make themselves feel better about themselves, example: It makes them feel strong, tough, macho, like a man, etc. I do find it wrong though. I am like that when I am in a bad mood, but not like punching someone in the eye, more like I'm gonna yell at you kinda result if you talk to me when I'm in a bad mood.

I used to have a friend that tried to act tougher than everyone and was sort of forceful, looking back I think it was because she had older siblings that picked on her. If they're mean for no reason, maybe it's a habit they got from someone in their life who acted that way towards them.

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Yeah. I ask that question to myself too. But never figured out the answer really. I think it's the nature of people that really defines their actions.

Suroundings, Influences, History, Parents... just to name a few things that makes a person unique(ly mean)
Sometimes, a person being mean just needs a bit of caring attention (well, that's what I heard. but I don't buy that sort of therapy)
although ignoring that Meanie (or Bully or whatevs) is somehow the common remedy... maybe they just want to make friends (or die by being stupid to directly/indirectly tell someone that he's worthless)

I actually think it's kind of hard levy is the behavior of others you should do just for you and without fear of being conjugate because it is what i do
I came into the world to be happy, not perfect

I hate this sort of thing as well. Bullying is just plain wrong. There is no way you could possibly justify it, even if others did it to you.

This is what I am talking about! This is an example of me. People just be mean to me for some reason.. My appearance hurts them

I think you should not worry about what others think if fat is what it is slim at just worry be happy