You should be sure who you marry is "the one " or it may lead to a devorce (there's lots of other reasons )

when you get married he?she should be sure the partner is "the one" it ruins peoples live devorce dose (sounded like yoda there)

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I think you should date that person and live with them for a long while before you get married. Marriage is a serious thing. You don't want to just jump into it. Only marry when you're ready and sure you want to spend your life with that person. :) As for divorce, I don't think you should get divorced unless he/she is abusing you in any way, he/she is abusing your children in any way, he/she cheats(this depends on YOU how many times til you've had enough), and if they're off somewhere else too many times when you need them and don't seem to care anymore.